Ok, I have a question for all you bloggers, And non bloggers, If your Spouse, ( or significant other) Had a BLOG , would you read it? Here is my answer, if the person I was in love with had a BLOG, I would be reading it every day. I would want to know what they were thinking, how they felt, what they said about ME, all that stuff. But does my Husband read my blog?? Hell no, he doesnt even know the address of it! So what does this say? what it tells me is that he is not even the SLIGHTEST bit interested in my life, what I feel, what I think, what I say about life, and HIM. HE just doesnt care. Is that really it? does he just not care, or is that just him? I DONT KNOW, and you would think, the fact that I am his wife, that I WOULD know.
If I lived in fantasy land, I would have a husband who was madley in love with me, who picked me lilacs from strangers yards because he knew that was my favorite flower and it only blooms but for a short month every year, who called me just to say " I LOVE YOU", and " I am thinking of you" Who came by my work, cause he hadnt seen me in days and couldnt go another day without seeing my smile, who knew and CARED that I cant listen to you eat, but thats ok , cause you love me anyway, and who read my blog, cause he cared to know what I said!
IS that too much to want?
Sunday, May 07, 2006
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It isn't too much to ask. I would want mine to remember little things about me too.
Most importantly, to be interested in me and my thoughts.
Well, Larry doesn't read my blog, either and I am okay with that. That way I can write whatever I want! LOL! But he is bad about reading email, etc., as well. He will be online for hours and I ask him if he checked email and it's always "no"!!! Just not his thing. I think the guy you are describing is a rare find. But I don't do all those things either, like popping into his workplace, etc. But he does other nice things like wash dishes, make meals, pick up dog poop and pretty much anything I ask him to do. Plus he never talks badly to me ever, go out bar hopping with the buds, sit on his ass all night... You know what I'm talking about. he is also VERY supportive of my scrapping hobby. He went into Mike's with me the other day cuz he wanted to see the Cricut!!! He is also encouraging me to go on the annual cruise with Jules and Kip and the gang. I think I'll keep my Larry!!! Tami there is a lot that goes into making a good man.
You know, some people just don't understand how important our blogs are to us. They just think that we are messing around on the computer. I think that you are one of the few people that check my blog every day. Kelly read our blogs (cause we have three) about once a week usually b/c I tell him that I have just posted something funny on Zoë's blog. He always enjoys them when he does read them, but it is not very often. It doesn't really bother me. I think I am used to it b/c most of my family doesn't even check our family blog and I created it so that they could see what we are up to. That actually bothers me more since Kelly sees me everyday and knows what I am posting about anyway.
I know my dh wouldn't read mine if I had one. He is just not a computer kinda guy. I would read his though. Guys are just funny that way.
Nichole
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